had an eventful week

a mixture of happiness and sadness

met up with Fenny on Thurs for prawning
initially asked Van along
but she had sth on hence left with just Fenny & I
bought 3hrs + 1hr from prev session
experienced relatively good catch-rate
caught 21 prawns in total
there's an exceptional size at abt 22cm !
it has princer like a lobster!
blue-ish and plenty of "pimples"
it put up a strong struggle before I fished it up
understood from the owner that it's fished from the river
hence the meat is extra tender and sweet
Fenny had her eyes on it eversince it's caught
eventually convinced me to have it GRILLED
we did grilled 2 average ones earlier
but this tasted almost like lobster's meat
can taste the freshness w/o much seasoning
just a pinch of salt and over charcoal grills

that's my 1st catch if I rmb correctly =)
1 each from Fenny & MyselfGRILLED fresh w/o seasoning
my "Mini Lobster" measuring 22cm!
look at it's intimating princers!
GRILLED fresh w/ pinch of salt !
sliced and shared with Fenny =)
some 20 average sized ones of 12cm plus
nicely packed into Box for freezing
freeze while semi alive to seal in it's freshness

~~~~~ the following is somehow 'emo' ~~~~~

recvd a call from my mum on Wed
she have to extend her re-entry permit
she's still a PR, not a Citizen
hence she'll require that done every 5yrs

I believe due to a recent incident
that happened at my Maternal Grandpa's funeral
that actually accelerated the situation

hence my dad refused to pass her his NRIC
for the extension purposes at ICA
I wouldn't blame him for his anger
if it's me, I would probably done the same
in a fit of anger

I became the 'negotiator' AGAIN (DAMMED!)
if I could afford to take sides
I would take my dad's side AT ALL TIMES
however, I've to remain neutral and calm
in order to handle the situation well
well, the ten commandments says
Respect Thou Parents!

intitally failed to get my dad to pass me his NRIC
however, after my mum left (thankfully)
he gave in and passed to me
I believe he understands my difficulty too

though that I know that it's wrong for me to say this
but I wished that divorce would solve this issue
it's conflicts after conflicts
eversince May 2003
however, my dad is worried over the final outcome
hence divorce haven't materialised, yet

I've to accompany my mum to extend her re-entry permits
though I hate to go with her
for she'll keep harping on past issues
wanting me to take her sides
but I've no choice
I've 2 important documents to "escort" to ICA Bldg
my dad's NRIC and Marriage Cert
if duplicates are accepted
I would had leaped at that opportunity

I'm planning a whole day of events after that
in order to prevent being asked by my mum to stay on
hopefully, I'm able to 'ignore' her at ICA
I keep my fingers crossed
that the extension is done swiftly
for once, I do hope ICA officers works efficiently

at moments I wept silenty